It’s time to expand into rock-solid stability, erotic passion, ease, internal peace, and delicious pleasure in your relationship--in the process seasoning your whole life with delight and joy.

Message Alexandra

You love one another deeply and plan to spend the rest of your lives together. 

Your relationship may be stronger than most of the couples you know.

And… you know more is possible.

Deeper emotional connection. More and better sexual intimacy. Really being on the same page about where you are going in your lives with one another.

You may be arguing a bit more, or you may be gladly conflict-free. Either way, you know the two of you are capable of a great deal more passion and dynamic energy. But you can’t figure out how to make it happen.

You know how to make things happen in the rest of your life, and you resent feeling unsure how to do so in your relationship.

You are devoted to your own personal growth in most other areas of your life and now you want to work with someone on your relationship. The thing is, it has to be the right person.  It has to be someone who is experienced, wise, compassionate, nuanced, and playful.

It has to be someone who is well trained, has years of experience, and really walks her talk in her own marriage.

You’ve come to the right place.

Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Luxury Love & Intimacy Mentor. She has helped hundreds of couples build beautiful, stable, passionate relationships and herself has been married for 25 years. She and her husband have 4 children and have figured out how to live full, meaningful personal, and professional lives while deeply prioritizing the connection between them.


As Alexandra’s private client you’ll dive deep, and soar, in delicious, bespoke experiences designed to show you how to bring playfulness, emotional connection, electric passion, and ease to your relationship.

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About Alexandra

Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Luxury Love & Intimacy Mentor. She is the author of Uncompromising Intimacy and the creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.

For over 20 years, she has shown men and women how to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life--from the daily grind of running a household, to clear and intimate communication, to ecstatic experiences in the bedroom! She believes the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy, and success in a couple’s relationship isn’t compromise--it’s being unwilling to compromise--because when both people feel free to be themselves, and know how to love and be loved for exactly who they are, the relationship is juicy, nourishing, and deeply satisfying. 

Alexandra has been featured in the Huffington Post, Rolling Stone, USAToday, Cosmopolitan, Business Insider, InStyle, FOX News NYC, and many other publications.

Luxury Love Testimonials

"My husband Jeff and I had been married for 21 years when we began working with Alexandra. While we’d had many ups and downs in our marriage, we were in what felt like a very long down period when we finally decided to call in support. At that point, we were operating like courteous roommates--with little to no emotional intimacy. We hadn’t had sex in nine months! While we communicated often about our children, our connection didn’t go far beyond that.

Alexandra had exactly the background and experience to know exactly what tools we needed--both individually and as a couple--and she created a safe space for us to do the work.

Jeff and I are so much closer than we were when we came to Alexandra for help. We’ve gotten back to truly enjoying one another’s company, and in fact, our marriage feels so fresh that we decided to recommit, getting married all over again!"

- Susana Acevedo, MD

"Alexandra is a very rare breed. She has such a unique skill of being able to see right to the root of your ‘problems’ and bring out the excellence that lives in your heart.

With her inner sight, I was able to reach into my issues, which were loaded with shame, guilt, hopelessness, judgement and self-doubt.

While a good coach might have helped me get better, Alexandra is a great coach in that she empowered me to do the work myself and to get free in all the areas I was feeling stuck.

Because of her ability to communicate her total love and approval for ALL OF ME, I felt deeply seen and effortlessly inspired to be my very, very best, most excellent self."

- Tania Sethi

"I've known Alexandra for over three years. I've been her coaching client for individual coaching, as well as couples coaching with my partner. I'm also a member of her mastermind for women coaches. 

Through coaching and mentorship with Alexandra, I've grown in my ability to navigate the challenges in my life, transformed my relationship, and gained crucial skills I use in every area of my life. 

Alexandra has a very nuanced and expansive understanding of what makes people tick.

She's deeply caring and supportive and also speaks directly to what you need to hear to get unstuck.

We had a great relationship, and now it’s fantastic.

- Marie-Elizabeth Mali, Relationship Coach, Poet, and Underwater Photographer

More Testimonials

"Alexandra helped me have the courage to talk with my husband, and helped me to get more clear about what I want and have the courage to explore if it’s possible in my marriage. Her honesty and willingness to discuss sometimes difficult subjects, and the respectful, practical, and compelling way she addresses them, helped me look at my partnership more deeply, and with new eyes."

- Suzanne

"Alexandra’s presence exudes safety, approval, and gentle wisdom. Whenever we got on the phone to do a coaching session, I would talk and go on about something, and she would catch the subtlest details of what was happening in the undercurrent of my being, and thus our sessions would start from that place. From the undercurrent. She’s very intuitive and weaves in her diverse knowledge and life experience as a woman, mom, wife, healer, and human being. To this day, after we concluded our sessions, I still use tools she suggested to me and am grateful for her in helping me move into this next stage of my life."

- Laurel