LUXURY LOVE &

INTIMACY MENTORING

It’s time to expand into rock-solid stability, erotic passion, ease, internal peace, and delicious pleasure in your relationship--in the process seasoning your whole life with delight and joy.

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LUXURY LOVE &

INTIMACY MENTORING

It’s time to expand into rock-solid stability, erotic passion, ease, internal peace, and delicious pleasure in your relationship--in the process seasoning your whole life with delight and joy.

You love one another deeply and plan to spend the rest of your lives together. 

Your relationship may be stronger than most of the couples you know.

And… you know more is possible.

Deeper emotional connection. More and better sexual intimacy. Really being on the same page about where you are going in your lives with one another.

You may be arguing a bit more, or you may be gladly conflict-free. Either way, you know the two of you are capable of a great deal more passion and dynamic energy.

But you can’t figure out how to make it happen.

You know how to make things happen in the rest of your life, and you resent feeling unsure how to do so in your relationship.

You are devoted to your own personal growth in most other areas of your life and now you want to work with someone on your relationship. The thing is, it has to be the right person.  It has to be someone who is experienced, wise, compassionate, nuanced, and playful.

It has to be someone who is well trained, has years of experience, and really walks her talk in her own marriage.

You’ve come to the right place.

Alexandra Stockwell, MD is an Intimate Marriage Expert. She has helped hundreds of couples build beautiful, stable, passionate relationships and herself has been married for 25 years. She and her husband have 4 children and have figured out how to live full, meaningful, personal and professional lives while deeply prioritizing the connection between them.

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About Alexandra

Alexandra Stockwell, MD is an
Intimate Marriage Expert.

She is the author of Uncompromising Intimacy and the creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.

For over 20 years, she has shown men and women how to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life--from the daily grind of running a household, to clear and intimate communication, to ecstatic experiences in the bedroom! She believes the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy, and success in a couple’s relationship isn’t compromise--it’s being unwilling to compromise--because when both people feel free to be themselves, and know how to love and be loved for exactly who they are, the relationship is juicy, nourishing, and deeply satisfying. 

Alexandra has been featured in the Huffington Post, Rolling Stone, USAToday, Cosmopolitan, Business Insider, InStyle, FOX News NYC, and many other publications.

Alexandra Stockwell, MD is a Luxury Love & Intimacy Mentor. She is the author of Uncompromising Intimacy and the creator of the Aligned & Hot Marriage program.

For over 20 years, she has shown men and women how to bring pleasure and purpose into all aspects of life--from the daily grind of running a household, to clear and intimate communication, to ecstatic experiences in the bedroom! She believes the key to passion, fulfillment, intimacy, and success in a couple’s relationship isn’t compromise--it’s being unwilling to compromise--because when both people feel free to be themselves, and know how to love and be loved for exactly who they are, the relationship is juicy, nourishing, and deeply satisfying. 

Alexandra has been featured in the Huffington Post, Rolling Stone, USAToday, Cosmopolitan, Business Insider, InStyle, FOX News NYC, and many other publications.

LUXURY LOVE & INTIMACY
PRIVATE MENTORING WITH ALEXANDRA

As Alexandra’s private client you’ll dive deep, and soar, in delicious, bespoke experiences designed to show you how to bring playfulness, emotional connection, electric passion, and ease to your relationship.

Email info@alexandrastockwell.com and we'll start the conversation.

Luxury Love Testimonials

"Jeff and I had been married for 21 years when we started working with Alexandra. At the time we were functioning like courteous roommates--with little to no emotional intimacy. We hadn’t had sex in nine months!

While we communicated often about our children, our connection didn’t go far beyond that.

Jeff and I are so much closer now! As a result of Alexandra’s coaching, we truly enjoy one another’s company and have fallen back in love with one another.

Our marriage feels so fresh that we decided to recommit and get married all over again!"
- Susana Acevedo, MD

"She has such a unique skill of being able to see right to the root of your ‘problems’ and bring out the excellence that lives in your heart.

With her inner sight, I was able to reach into my issues, which were loaded with shame, guilt, hopelessness, judgement and self-doubt.

While a good coach might have helped me get better, Alexandra is a great coach in that she empowered me to do the work myself .

Because of her ability to communicate her total love and approval for ALL OF ME, I felt deeply seen and effortlessly inspired to be my very, very best, most excellent self."
- Tania Sethi

"Through coaching and mentorship with Alexandra,

I've grown in my ability to navigate the challenges in my life, gained crucial skills I use in every area of my life, and, most importantly, transformed my relationship. 

Alexandra has a very nuanced and expansive understanding of what makes people tick.

She's caring and supportive, and also speaks directly to what you need to hear to get unstuck.

Patrick and I had a great relationship, and now it’s fantastic.”
- Marie-Elizabeth Mali, Relationship Alchemist and Poet

More Testimonials

"I was feeling really stuck, and I couldn’t understand why. I longed for clarity, and I wanted to reignite the spark. After just one session, I began to feel a shift, and by the end of our first months together, my whole life had turned around! In only a few months, I went from seeing myself as being in the passenger seat--in life, at my job, and in my relationship--to being the one who calls the shots and who always receives the support and love she needs to thrive. I went from being an assistant to being a COO, and instead of being a single mom living in a two-bedroom apartment that I can barely afford, I’m now marrying my fiancé and buying a five-bedroom house in a lovely neighborhood! Alexandra invited me to open my eyes and see my world from a new vantage point. As a result, I began taking risks that I’d been too afraid to even consider before."
- Jaquetta Jancewicz, COO The Reality Formula


"Through coaching with Alexandra, and her expert guidance and support, we have already progressed more in a few weeks than in our 4 years together."
- Kelsey Blakeway, Entrepreneur


"Alexandra’s presence exudes safety, approval, and gentle wisdom. Whenever we began a coaching session, I would talk and go on about something. She would catch the subtlest details of what was happening in the undercurrent of my being, and thus our sessions would start from that place. From the undercurrent. She’s very intuitive and weaves in her diverse knowledge and life experience as a woman, mom, wife, healer, and human being. To this day, I still use the tools she taught me and am extremely grateful for her brilliant support in helping me move into this next stage of my life."
- Laurel Lozzi


"Alexandra has a big loving and caring heart, but don't let that fool you... she combines years of experience, coaching acumen, and 'in your face' direct feedback that may not be easy to receive, but is exactly what you need to hear!  Her advice and coaching helped me overcome some limited beliefs I was holding onto and gave me a new perspective as a man such that I now feel loved and worthy."
- AJ Yager, Praxis Metrics

Additional Testimonials

"Working with Alexandra has been my absolute pleasure. Earlier this year, I found myself on a path looking for something to deepen the self exploratory work I had begun. Having amassed knowledge from many different sources, I found myself slightly disorganized and often confused when it came to embodying the woman I want to be.  

Within our relationship, Alexandra provides a beautiful balance of direction, support and reflection - intuitively knowing what best serves me in any given moment.  This results in me showing up in alignment, embodying the woman I want to be - for myself, my family and within my business.  As these shifts take place, even the most subtle, the impact is felt through every single one of my interactions each and every day."
- Adrienne Carter, High Performance Mindset Coach


"Alexandra is an excellent listener with an incredible ability to tune into the issue at hand and turn down the volume on the problem.

When she coached my partner and me, we both felt seen and heard and thankfully, she was able to take it one step at a time, so we never felt overwhelmed.

What’s more, she gently teased out our deeper issues and worded them in a way that opened us up to receiving guidance on how to move forward.

Simple, direct, and solid is how I would describe her.

In other words, Alexandra rocks!"
- Tomas Booher, Innovator

"I am so grateful I had the opportunity to work with Alexandra! There are two separate, but intertwined, aspects of her coaching that have her stand out as truly one of the best in this work.

Her technical skills are impeccable. She has the insight to see and describe long-standing patterns of guilt and blame, shame and anger, and to name what underlies them. 

Second, her emotional approach, her way of being, while coaching makes it so that the things she sees and describes land kindly and as an opportunity.

My partner and I came into this coaching with what felt to us like a very concrete, intractable dilemma. She wanted a baby yesterday, and was at an age where urgency was warranted. I felt neither financially ready for that nor that our relationship was in a place for it.

Alexandra deftly untangled history and story from our dilemma - the impact of underlying stories (e.g., my doubt in my self-worth, my belief that I will only be loved based on what I produce rather than who I am, the way I made my partner responsible for my emotions). This transformed our "dilemma" into a shared focus of our relationship, something we were partnered on, instead of in opposition around.

In addition, these same insights and practices have been vital outside of my romantic partnership. I bring these skills into my work, my family relationships, and, perhaps most importantly, how I treat myself."
- Benjamin Emmert -Aronson, PhD, Co-Founder, Open Source Wellness

"In my relationship so many things have changed……

I have learned to put my own oxygen mask on first. I am more friendly and loving with myself. I give myself a smile in the morning.

I pay attention to my emotions and I find ways to let them flow.

I have learned how to connect with my partner more. I am softer and know how to connect and ground when he is emotional and intense.

I cultivate curiosity again and again, and I love him for who he is!

I loved Alexandra’s Coaching, her wisdom and her suggestions, her presence in listening, her love and caring."
- Monika-Licia Steiner, MD


"This should be in all caps and 10 pages long to emphasize what a shift this is for me and how happy I am. My life is completely different after this year of looking into my soul rather than using coaching to put out daily fires (as I have done in the past with other coaches)

After years of arguing and conflict and hurt feelings, we regularly create family events which are fun for everyone, emotionally safe, and really nourishing for me. 

I am so happy to feel in harmony in all of my important relationships. I have the hot, nourishing sex I always wanted with my husband. And I get to experience myself as the most important person in his life and him in mine."
- Tamika, Wife and Mom

LUXURY LOVE & INTIMACY
PRIVATE MENTORING WITH ALEXANDRA

As Alexandra’s private client you’ll dive deep, and soar, in delicious, bespoke experiences designed to show you how to bring playfulness, emotional connection, electric passion, and ease to your relationship.

Email info@alexandrastockwell.com and we'll start the conversation.

More Testimonials

"By the world’s standards, I was already hugely successful when I began working with Alexandra. I was healthy, had a great career that most people would dream of, had cultivated a broad social network, and was traveling the world regularly, both for work and for pleasure. But I also had a constant pang that I was missing something. I felt empty and compartmentalized, with a sneaking suspicion that I was somehow missing the point. Like I wasn't living the life I was supposed to be living and I should be doing MORE. 

I was haunted by this voice constantly telling me I wanted too much, and yet, it didn't go away. No matter how hard I tried to ignore it, to change it, or to feed it--filling up on more travel, more luxurious experiences, more socializing--it was always with me. There was something in there that desperately wanted to be cultivated and I felt trapped in the in-between, unsure of whether I should follow the voice in my head or just try to be satisfied. I began to feel quietly tortured as I not-so-gracefully tried to keep up the outward appearances that I was thriving. 

Then one spring afternoon, I stumbled upon Alexandra, and from the moment we first connected, a part of me that I'm not sure the world had ever seen before came to life. What followed was a series of spiritual awakenings, a crash course in knowing myself to the core, and a relearning process of how to live life aligned with my inner voice. In effect, I began allowing the world to meet me rather than me trying so desperately and exhaustively to meet the world. 

Alexandra has seen me through hell and back as I’ve recreated myself, in order to become a more authentic and right-sized version of myself. She’s brilliant, especially when it comes to slowing me down as I try to speed through and rush over the details of my own experience. She’s supported me in getting in touch with my own feelings and my own truth, and she’s taught me how to give myself the kind of pause I was desperate to find in my life before we began working together. Now, instead of feeling totally overwhelmed and like I’m just trying keep up with the pace of things, I’m able to breathe and to hear *my* voice loud and clear. 

A year and a half after I first met Alexandra, my life is in a perpetual upswing. Growth, learning, expansion, and readiness await me every morning when I awake, and I know, unequivocally, what it is that I want. Since we began working together, I've launched two businesses, stopped worrying about whether I fit in with society, and embraced the part of me that is here to change the world. What’s more, every single one of my relationships is not only deeply gratifying, but also incredibly nourishing. I know the depths of pure joy inside and out because of my work with Alexandra, and I honestly don't know where I'd be without her."
- Antesa Jensen, Emotional Intelligence Expert


"Before meeting Alexandra, I already had a life that many would love to step into, but in terms of living with self-confidence, deep satisfaction, and creativity, there was still something missing. The kinds of deep heartfelt connections I wanted with others seemed elusive--few and far between--and I was constantly aware of that essential missing piece in my life. 

Despite being really successful--a Stanford and Harvard graduate with two healthcare clinics as well as a coaching and teaching business--I was feeling a little cut off from myself. I often questioned my own feelings--it was like there was a big gap between how the world saw me and what I felt inside. It felt as though I had somehow lost hold of some internal anchor, and there was a deeper self-knowing--a peace and satisfaction--that I was loudly craving. 

In our work together, Alexandra shined a light into the dark crevices of my heart and supported me when I felt hesitant and wobbly, and didn't know what to do. She’s got an uncanny ability to sense emotions and to focus in on the essential missing piece. With Alexandra’s help, I’ve discovered a strength I’d never experienced before. She’s taught me not only how to build bridges between myself and other people within my community, but also between me and my heart. I now know I can find the sweet spot in my relationships with friends and family members, regardless of their behaviors or level of self-awareness. Consequently, my joy, and fun with others, has expanded exponentially. I no longer seek nourishment in places that are deserts or with people who are unable to experience deeper connections.  

Until I began working with Alexandra, I didn’t realize that I was rarely comfortable speaking my truth. I quieted my own voice--afraid to share what I saw and what I felt--so people around me weren’t able to respond to my needs. Now, I no longer stay quiet.  I have honed in on my desires, and I’ve found a voice to express and communicate them. With Alexandra’s help, I have opened up my Lone Wolf style of living and working. I no longer try to do it all myself, nor do I feel lonely in my leadership position any longer. I work with other successful CEOs, and for the first time, I have a deep sense of belonging and rightness about who I am in both my work and in my personal life. This is not to say that I don't get messy, however I now see it as part of the process, and I enjoy it instead of trying to push it away.

I’ve also learned the difference between being nice and being kind. I still lead compassionately, but I don't struggle to communicate my standards and expectations anymore. My boundaries are clearer and my ability to articulate them makes it so much easier for others to interact with me. I used to agonize over difficulties with employees who were not stepping up in their jobs, but now that I’m clear with my expectations, I celebrate their successes whenever I can and take action with clarity before we hit a crisis point. 

Alexandra's style includes an ability to calibrate easily to whatever kind of approach I am needing in the moment; sometimes I need a powerfully honed, knife’s-edge level of communication, and other times, I need a gentle and deeply loving approach to open up me up to deeper examination and integration. She’s able to easily discern what’s needed while always maintaining a vision of the bigger picture of our work together. What’s more, she lives a wide range of roles--as a professional, mother, wife, healer, leader, and embodiment of the sacred sexual feminine--so my own varied embodiments have been easily integrated into our sessions and thus, into my life. 

Overall, I have moved to a higher and deeper level of connection and heartfelt love in every area of my life, and I’ve developed new relationships that are more nourishing, satisfying and creative. I regularly feel empowered, happy and free--my internal wild woman riding with the wind in her hair--and I’m so grateful for Alexandra’s presence in my life."
- Lisa St John, MPH


"Alexandra is the ultimate coach for the woman who has traversed the depths of her soul, poured herself into personal development, achieved astounding success and still, despite her complete willingness to grow and transform, finds herself in patterns she wishes to change. Through refined practices, profound safety, and unrelenting presence to your heart, Alexandra guides you to the subtle threads that have held you back from your greatest fulfillment and trusts completely in your own knowing along the way. She can both challenge you with love and expand her view on things she hadn’t considered, in service of the greatest version of your whole self to emerge from the ashes. If you’ve found yourself longing for a coach that has the maturity and wisdom to take you far beyond the mediocre standards of simply loving yourself in the coaching community, I can not recommend her highly enough. She is a gift, a gorgeous woman, and a true example of what it means to serve from your own evolutionary growth."
- Violet Doucette, Psychologist